So, you've decided to gift a beautiful bouquet of something for Valentine's Day. We applaud the choice, but you have more of them to make. There's technical considerations like color, fragrance, and form that can be sneakily stumping — especially if you aren't consulting a florist.

Luckily, we know a guy. Michael Gaffney's floral chops range from designing arrangements for movie sets (have you seen Black Swan?) to creating ambiance for New York fashion shows, but we're most excited about his teaching gig. As the founder of the American Schools of Flower Design, Michael has a tip (or five) up his sleeve for creating a Valentine's Day bouquet that hits the mark.
Take it away, Michael!
- A Floral Story
- Fragrant Flowers
- The Classic
- Focal Flowers
- Don't Skimp
"People love arrangements that create a floral story by mixing different types of flowers, like calla lilies, orchids and stock flowers. This classic American design works for many occasions, especially Valentine's Day. The arrangement also makes a great DIY project, since the flowers are readily available at farmers markets or grocery stores."
"Who doesn't love the lovely aroma of flowers? Fill bouquets with a variety of fragrant blooms including roses, stargazer lilies, wax flowers, and freesia. These arrangements will fill any space with wonderful scents long after the holiday is over."
"You can't go wrong with a classic rose bouquet. It's the number-one most requested arrangement in America. From a single rose to a full bouquet, the flower still stands for love. Just avoid purchasing 'bullet roses,' which have tight bulbs and will never open. Instead, choose a rose slightly 'unfurling.' These roses have been harvested later and will open and last longer."
"An arrangement that has tons of flowers is everyone's dream. Try combining mass flowers (full and round blooms) such as lilies, roses, sunflowers, hydrangeas, magnolias, and daisies into a grand arrangement to really make a statement and make the person you're giving them to feel special."
"A person will know when you skimp out on the good stuff. On Valentine's Day, try to avoid the overdone arrangements filled with carnations, baby's breath, lots of greenery, and other mass-produced fillers and flowers."

Thanks for sharing your tips, Michael! Wishing you a very happy Valentine's Day.




Now that the weather is warming up, flowers are beginning to bloom — hello, daffodils! — and there'll soon be plenty of stems ripe for your tabletop bouquets. Growing up on 13 acres, there were plenty of wild flowers for me to pick without encroaching on the territory of my mother's garden. Some families have off-limits rules about picking flowers from their garden, while others think they're there for the picking. How do you stand?
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If I could have fresh flowers on every table in my home day in and day out, I would. But my budget usually only permits one or two bouquets at a time. That said, I have an instinct to set my lone vase on a high table like a console table or a dining table where my precious petals are nearly at eye level. It doesn't even cross my mind to set them on my coffee table. How about you? Do you put fresh flowers on your coffee table? Or are they reserved for another spot in your home?
